The Ramblings of a Random Freak

If  someone close to you, be it a boyfriend, girlfriend, just a friend… doesn’t matter who…

If they’re jealous?

Get rid of them.

Jealousy is a sign of insecurity and instability – it is NOT a sign that someone cares more, or loves more – someone who ACTUALLY cares more and loves more is LESS likely to be jealous, because they’re happy and secure.

And they understand that you’re there because you want to be there – and accept that if you leave, it’s something you need to do to be happy…

SO yeah – if someone gets jealous of sharing your attention, or perceives a reason to get upset when you talk to other people?

don’t walk, run, you’re with a fucktard douchebag asshat.

no matter how nice they might seem, they have issues that need to be dealt with before they’re good for anyone, including themselves.

Tonight on the ferry ride home, I met some folks who were just chatty and listening to music and making new friends… they talked to everyone who walked by, and everyone cheered up no matter how grumpy they looked.

It was, frankly, awesome.

The words fortuitous and fucktard and douchecanoe and serendipitous were all spoken of in kind fashion

the stars were twinkling

and there were many, many smiles.

when someone said “Bob’s your uncle!” Bob blurted out, No I’m Not!

sitting outside on a ferry listening to music, talking to strangers – tonight did not suck